When I lost my baby, the first thing anyone asked was "Are you going to try again?" The answer was yes, we just had to wait for one normal period before doing so. My next period was fine so we tried again. I fell pregnant first go and we were so excited. Looking back though I think we should have waited three months. I still wasn't emotionally or physically strong and suffered a lot of fear for those nine months. Due to the recent miscarriage I bled on and off up until 6 months, which meant many hospitalisations. By the end of it I was a nervous wreck.
You are showing remarkable strength in all this, but give yourselves time to heal. Little things are going to make you hurt, especially memories like this one.
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You are showing remarkable strength in all this, but give yourselves time to heal. Little things are going to make you hurt, especially memories like this one.