Damn, you caught me out. If I know someone doesn't like something like sugary, or can't have them, I try to keep it in mind. Oh I forget from time to time, but I do my best to reduce the issue because it's not actually that hard to do.

In that regard, you may like my nibblies box. When it's properly stocked it has a range of stuff from the insanely sugary to the incredibly bland (but I like them) Amaranth chips. And I always try to find out what nibblies will work for a specific travelling companion, too.

I'm in favour of nudity as a way to break down barriers - the checking each other out part is quite natural for reasons ranging for simple curiosity through to phwoarness - it's going to be a love and hate post if I get the time to write the bastard! Got about seven lined up now, just waiting...