Glad you liked it. Still deeply embarrassed writing about it, and aware that some of my mates will do the "Oh my god, what was he thinking?" thing and generally shake their heads about it and have a laugh. It's one of the ways people cope with embarrassment and openness.

But many of them are people who have asked me for advice and guidance on sex issues over the years, and some of them are people who would never dream of talking to someone about something so intimate. Most guys worry about penis size, performance and how they stack up against others. So if me talking about it means one of my mates can can open up and talk about any issues, it's worth the quiet mockery.

I am aware of it, and it makes comments like yours all the nicer. Thank you :)