RE: the TMI stuff - I've thought about how better to phrase things, and wondered about putting in less detail or info, but even if I did, it would still be too much for many folks, so why dilute the message if people are still gunna have a problem with it? I don't want people to be uncomfortable (most of the time, anyway) but where do you stop when it comes to censoring what you're talking about?

Thank you for being so kind about my babblings. I look forward to us actually meeting one day :)