I think some of it would depend on how much hair there is... eg I have some hair on my toes and fingers, as most of us probably do, but if there was a LOT of it I'd probably get rid of it, and wouldn't find it attractive on a partner.

I think the male/female thing would be interesting to explore. Eg I don't much like underarm hair on anyone, but I prefer it least on women. And I hate that the expectation is that women shave their legs. I don't, although perhaps I'd feel differently if I had more leg hair and wore more girly-girl clothes.