If people want to love and care for a child they should actually do that for children who need love and care rather than looking for a "perfect baby".

Whilst taking on a child that has been traumatised can be difficult, I also know many parents who have had their biological children become "difficult" (everything from violence towards other family members, drug abuse, emotional problems and suicide). You never know what a child will be like even if you raised them from day one.

Also I thought IVF had an age limit?