I went to my first con at 16, without knowing anyone at all. There had been a brief mention in the West Australian newspaper that I read. I was nervous, yes, and so, I took my Mum with me. Swancons were much smaller in those days, and so as a new person you stood out! I was swept up by people who were at the front desk and chatted to, shown around and had some con things explained. The program listed all the clubs in WA, so that you could continue to be fannish for the rest of the year.

Now, being a 16 year old female at swancon in 1981 probably helped my acceptance. But, I think it was more important that I was recognised as new, and so people sought me out to make sure I was okay. Having some mark on badges etc, of 'newbie' status might be helpful. Perhaps each day there could be a lunch meet up for new people and more experienced attendees (who could be scheduled to be there.) I think many would find that 'formal' structure to be helpful and safe.