All you can do is the best you can do at the time. We sat down and did a serious think about it when the godparents circumstances changed, (He passed away), but in the end, it has worked out well. Jess and her godmother talk a lot about stuff she doesn't feel she can talk to us about, whatever that is.

So in the end, all you can do is pick the person or people that you would feel comfortable leaving your child with if you both happened to be hit by a bus right now.

If we had a crystal ball we would all be rich.