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dalekboy ([personal profile] dalekboy) wrote2008-08-24 09:30 pm

Odds and sods relating to the baby

Just a bunch of bits and pieces, some of which I forgot to comment on yesterday.

* Text Message from Sharon last night - Meconium! And vomit. Bub is rather indignant at the indignities of a working digestive system ;-)

* During the labour, Sharon listened to the Space Capades CD twice. It was the only music CD she listened to.

* I rather enjoy laying back with Lex asleep on my bare chest.

* Sharon refused to let me name him William Hartnell Oz, even though I explained that that would make his intials W.H.O., which would be very cool!

* She also refused to let me name him Spuds McGinty.

* It feels weird to not be able to celebrate with Mitch and Mondy. I miss them very much. I would probably miss them less if I were better at keeping in contact with them.

* I have already had conversations with other adults that contained information about Lex's bowel movements. I am offically the parent of a baby.

* My mother has obviously forgotten anything she ever knew about babies.

* My mother was also rather surprised to learn I had changed Lex's first nappy. She is still dealing with the idea that I will be changing Lex. Apparently my dad never changed me.

* Sharon comes home Tuesday.

* I could happily photograph pregnant women all day long.

* Hespa will make a great aunty.

* I wish dad was here to see his grandson. I like the idea that he knows, but my logical brain tends to hold to the notion death is the end.

* I went out today and picked up three newspapers from yesterday to keep for Lex. I find the newspaper kept for me by my father fascinating to glance at.

* I am not riding my trike this week. Since I am already tired and I want to be in a good state to help out Sharon, I don't want to risk wiping myself out any further.

* However, I shall be going swimming tomorrow.

* My chocolate cigars are at the Post Office. This is good because Bill and Diane who work there would have been given one each anyway.

* I'm still tired, being stroke boy made the whole support Sharon thing extra tiring for me. Sharon is doing rather well.

* Lex's first episode of Doctor Who will be ep. 1 of Dalek Invasion of Earth. It's what I'm up to, and I'm waiting until he's home before I watch it. He will probably be asleep on my chest through it, but it counts.

* I still have to get an email written up to send out to people.

* We have finally decided that yes, his name will be Alexander, though we will pretty much always call him Lex. And never Xander.

[identity profile] drjon.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 12:37 pm (UTC)(link)
...my logical brain tends to hold to the notion death is the end.

No-one can deny it's an end. And here you are, at a beginning, as well.

Cheers. I hope you're well.

[identity profile] mondyboy.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 12:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Alexander is a lovely name.

[identity profile] rachelholkner.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 12:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Alexander is an excellent name - my brother's in fact! But he's definitely a Xander. (From about 15 years before BtVS too.)
Is Lex a Who reference? (showing my ignorance) Or Superman?

[identity profile] treehouseman.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 01:24 pm (UTC)(link)
And a belated congratulations to the both of you!

Our brains must work very similarly . . .

[identity profile] damienps.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 01:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Late last night I was thinking of mentioning calling him Alexander.

[identity profile] dalekboy.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 01:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Sharon's grandfather is Alexander, and my grandmother was Alexandrovna, so we originally figured on one of those two, depending on the gender, and if the baby felt like an Alexander. He doesn't feel quite like an Alexander, but he does feel like a Lex. Turns out Alexander was also mum's uncle's name.

As to references I do tend to think of Lex Luthor from Superman, Alexander the Great, Alexander De Large from Clockwork Orange, and the Lexx, from Lexx. Lexx is the inspiration for the new Lex icon.

I actually like Xander. When I first heard it I thought it was an interesting variant. But Buffy's buggered the name for a little while.

[identity profile] logansrogue.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 02:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Alexander is one of my *favourite* names! I use it a lot in fiction. And if I ever had a boy, it'd be one of the names on the list. Except I'd just call the kid "Alex". Cause I like that name.

But dude - BEAUTIFUL BABY. Oh my GOD, it does my head in!

And listen to the wise drjon. *hugs*
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[identity profile] purrdence.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 02:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Pregnant women are quite sexy... I've been trying for weeks to come up with a L&H post that says that without me sounding a bit creepy and freaking out the pregnant women I know...

[identity profile] mistress-wench.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 04:08 pm (UTC)(link)
To avoid being peed on by my boy, I was told the trick was to hold the nappy on until last moment and then get everything done asap. Thankfully he's never peed on me in that comical-for-everyone-else-but-me way, but he has leaked poop :/

[identity profile] gutter-monkey.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 05:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Lex's first episode of Doctor Who will be ep. 1 of Dalek Invasion of Earth. It's what I'm up to, and I'm waiting until he's home before I watch it. He will probably be asleep on my chest through it, but it counts.

Your next difficult decision will be how quickly you can show him episodes 4 - 6 of Star Wars, and how long you can put off showing him eps 1 -3.

[identity profile] tillianion.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Belated congratulations, and glad to hear you're both already having loads of fun with the parenting - kids are so cute but you need to keep your sense of humour to survive :)

[identity profile] kaths.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 10:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I really do like that name.

Clara's first SF has been Babylon 5 - we're up to season 3 now during feeds.

And yes, people do forget all the details about very young babies, even those who only had one a few years ago!

[identity profile] kattilz.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I love the name Alexander, it means when Lex is in school and doesn't like the long name he can choose what he likes to be called. Also if at home you just call him Lex when he is in serious trouble you yell 'Alexander'! hehehehe

glad all is so far going well
hugs and kisses

carol

[identity profile] fearofemeralds.livejournal.com 2008-08-24 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Alexander is a great name. ;-)

Of course, you realise that, in 12-14 years times when he's entering the whole evil teenage boy rebellion phase, the fact that you've called him Lex all his life will mean that he will naturally turn around and demand to be called Xander instead. :-)

[identity profile] dalekboy.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
So far through sheer chance, I have missed out on poo. I was all geared up for it yesterday, but clean nappies the whole time.

See, adult conversations about poo. I'm a parent.

[identity profile] dalekboy.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
You want to know the really difficult thing? My anal retentive nature means I want to show him the films in order 1-6. My storyteller, film-buff side wants to show him the films in 'proper' order 4-6, 1-3 because otherwise that big moment where we find out who Luke's father is in Empire will lose all it's impact.

I suspect storyteller will win.

[identity profile] dalekboy.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
It's good that you like your future son-in-law's name ;-)

[identity profile] kaths.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
Hehe :)

[identity profile] dalekboy.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
It is a good name, but Spuds McGinty is pretty darn fine also.

The most potent act of rebellion he could manage would be to become a Liberal-voting accountant.

[identity profile] dalekboy.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, given that we've both joked about this a few times... it would be kind of freaky if it actually happened.

Unlikely, and good, but freaky!
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[identity profile] leecetheartist.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
I have an idea that Sascha is the Russian diminutive for the Russian version of Alexander too.

Big, heartfelt congratulations to you all from me and Rob.

[identity profile] kaths.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, go the storyteller way.

[identity profile] kaths.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
Would help if we all lived in the same state! You do realise they're going to live in Melbourne, don't you...

[identity profile] julesmond.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
Mazel Tov - such a cute baby!

And Mondy is quite jealous, so keep your eye on Lex!

[identity profile] dalekboy.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 03:17 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you!

Funny thinking of Mondy being jealous of a bub. He'd make such a great dad, and you'd rock, too... though not as a dad :)

All going well we'll hit Melbourne in 6-8 weeks, so we can test Mondy's clucky-factor then ;)

[identity profile] dalekboy.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 03:22 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, by that time I'm hoping we'll both have to go visit them on one of the moon colonies...

[identity profile] bunnikins.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 05:14 am (UTC)(link)
Reading my friendslist backwards to catch up, so I assume there are photos and am just about to check...but in the meantime, congratulations! Hope all went well & smoothly, I'm guessing Sharon was calm and serene throughout and you ran about madly til you exhausted yourself & passed out, am I close? :) In any case, well done all around!

Right, off to look for pics and make preparations in case the world ends suddenly as a direct result of you becoming a parent. Just in case.

[identity profile] kaths.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 10:44 am (UTC)(link)
With an instant transporter I hope...

[identity profile] kaths.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 10:45 am (UTC)(link)
Ooh, ooh, you're coming down! By 6-8 weeks you should feel like you have a vague idea of what you're doing.

Will be great to get the bubs together.

[identity profile] mistress-wench.livejournal.com 2008-08-25 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
Yes and it's the best excuse ever to do stuff 'cos after a while you're all "ahh stuff it I don't care anymore!" well I was anyway. And another thing: germs are the only things kids share without question!
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[identity profile] purrdence.livejournal.com 2008-08-26 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
Who thinks Dr Who is the work of Satan.

[identity profile] dalekboy.livejournal.com 2008-08-26 04:19 am (UTC)(link)
I did want to do the comical, sitcom-dad run around, but sadly I was calm and supportive.

Lex has the cutest little birth mark - a little 616 (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/616_(number))

[identity profile] hespa.livejournal.com 2008-08-28 10:27 am (UTC)(link)
Oops, so now I know. Please ignore the comment I just made on your next post (the hazards of reading FList in reverse order) asking about his name.

[identity profile] hespa.livejournal.com 2008-08-28 10:28 am (UTC)(link)
Several of these dot points have made me smile quite a lot. One in particular left me grinning from ear to ear. I'll let you guess which one...