Unrelatedly - I love the icon. You, Lex and some dunes I recognise...

Relatedly - oh yeah. James is being pretty good, actually. He knows he doesn't see a lot of things that need doing, but in the last few weeks has happily and confidently taken over a number of tasks that I've been too foggy or tired to remember/do. Like making dinner. He seems pretty clear that he'll be sharing in most tasks fairly evenly (other than actually making milk).