One thing I found interesting was that no one, and especially no parents, replied to my post (http://dalekboy.livejournal.com/239698.html) on how not to expect any luck with sex or masturbation with a new baby in the house. To date, it's the only Thing New Parents Should Know (http://dalekboy.livejournal.com/tag/tnpsk) post to have no replies. Either people don't want to face the reality, don't want to admit it in public, or just wept quietly instead of posting :)