No, I don't think other people's views are crap, it was a bad word choice on my part.

Just because an opinion comes from a victim doesn't make their point of view free from being problematic. My own elder sister has said things that I virulently disagree with and she too is speaking as a victim. I still respect her and her opinion, but it doesn't mean I'm not allowed to say that it's messed up.

I shouldn't say it's crap though, but that's my sheer frustration and desperation in a messy situation talking, which is wrong of me.

Anyway, I've spoken to Danny about my behaviour here, apologised, and it's sorted out, so you can put down the torpedoes.