I don't consider Kate Winslet as large either, and was appalled to read that James Cameron used to refer to her as 'Kate Weighs-a-lot'. I don't understand how people can consider Calista Flockhart attractive, when her nude scene in A Midsummer Night's Dream made her look like the wrong half of 'Death and the Maiden'.

An impression that a woman is comfortable in her body, that it's neither unwieldy nor disturbingly fragile, and perhaps most importantly that she enjoys it and might enjoy others enjoying it... that's attractive.