In a fit of insomina last night (or was it this morning) I read all of hespa's LJ. She does sound like a really nice, caring person. Those kind of persons are sort of like buses when you don't have the timetable with you. Sometimes you have to wait a bloody long time for them, and sometimes they arrive just when you need them.

From here all I can do is send big cyberhugs down the line. I'm good at that *bighugs*

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Also, and this is just an idea and you can ignore it if you see fit, have you considered getting one of those shower caddy things that attach to the shower wall with suction caps. You could put it at sitting height in the shower.