Yep! See the My Sexuality (http://dalekboy.livejournal.com/106665.html#cutid2) post for some of the reasons for me hesitation to leap at chances. I have had a girl clad only in underpants sitting on my lap, kissing my neck, and I had no idea what would be considered appropriate behaviour on my part - so I sat there rather than risking a wrong move.

Mind you, that was years ago.

These days I would at least tentatively caress her back... while waiting for it all to go horribly wrong.

Kind of like Silver Nemesis.