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dalekboy ([personal profile] dalekboy) wrote2007-06-01 06:41 pm
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I'm staying in hospital with Shaz tonight, labour will be induced tomorrow. Yes, we had to make the most awful decision imaginable.

Thanks to all of you for your kind wishes & offers of support, it's really meant a lot.

And heading the ongoing League of Gentlemen sketch that's been running through this experience - the six minute phone call to my mother over a bad line, where I had to repeat the information about inducing the pregnancy over and over again because she wasn't getting enough of my words to understand what was going on.

Dante just found a new level of hell with that one.
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[identity profile] arcadiagt5.livejournal.com 2007-06-01 08:50 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks to all of you for your kind wishes & offers of support, it's really meant a lot.

You're welcome, call if you need anything (a message which I'm sure is going to sound a bit like a broken record to you fairly soon).

Dante just found a new level of hell with that one.

Well, the telcos have had it coming for years.

[identity profile] logansrogue.livejournal.com 2007-06-01 08:59 am (UTC)(link)
Oh God, I'm so sorry. *hugs*

[identity profile] drjon.livejournal.com 2007-06-01 09:06 am (UTC)(link)
Damn.

No words but: I'm thinking of you both.

Try and get some rest.

[identity profile] mynxii.livejournal.com 2007-06-01 09:16 am (UTC)(link)
I'm thinking of you both so much - such an awful decision, and everything still stressful and raw and upsetting. I love you both, and I hope you both can feel it, along with everone elses. Also, similarly I will do anything I can to help.

I am also sure, making comment on your earlier post, that she knows you love her, and that you wanted her. I hope that you can see her and say goodbye. We send our heartfelt 'goodbyes' to her too.

[identity profile] kaths.livejournal.com 2007-06-01 10:02 am (UTC)(link)
My heart's just breaking, no-one should have to go through that. Take your time in saying goodbye...

[identity profile] babalon-93.livejournal.com 2007-06-01 11:02 am (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry for your loss. It is an awful decision to have to make and a terrible thing to have to go through. My thoughts are with you.

[identity profile] chaosmanor.livejournal.com 2007-06-01 12:05 pm (UTC)(link)
A long time ago, I lived through something similiar to what both of you are enduring, when a pregnancy ended at 16 weeks.

I have no words, nothing to offer you both that will make any difference.

Love to you both.

[identity profile] mistress-wench.livejournal.com 2007-06-01 02:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I am humbled by your words and grief. I will not relate to you my own experiences as I do not wish to take away from yours, except to say that I wil be keeping my little ones closer to me for a few days to come..

[identity profile] oothoona.livejournal.com 2007-06-02 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
I met you once for about three seconds - and at the time was too shy to admit that I have been reading you journal for months.

I commented to a friend this morning that though I am grieving for each of you, I can't even leave messages of concern and affection on your blog, because it might be unsettling coming from a stranger. She told me that she thought you wouldn't mind.

So loving thoughts to you, and to S - I will light a candle tonight.


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