Dalekboy

this is never easy and i do so feel for you both. all i can say is that you are spot on in describing all that you are feeling and that you just have to let yourself feel it all, no matter how much it hurts. as soon as you are able just hug Sharon all you can and keep doing it until things abate a bit. talk to your daughter, i've a firm belief she can hear you but even if thats not true it will help you feel at least a bit connected. talk to her and write to her, let her know you will never forget her and when the time feels right move on. only you will know when that time is. even then it doesnt mean you love her any less, just that its time. for now give yourself permission to hurt and let whatever will console you into your life and of course be there for Sharon.. my love to you both