I don't use my account very often. in fact, I tend to only use it to reply to posts that I feel strongly about, when I am alerted to them. This was one of those situations.
You guys are all absolutely awesome. I'm so pleased to count the three of you in my circle of friends despite not having seen you guys for ages. Have absolutely adored the time we have spent together (on beaches, at Swancons and just overall in general) and am so pleased that we have had that opportunity.
Your post made me think a lot about how we see ourselves and our relationships and how other people view us. So very inspiring.
Open relationships are something M and I speak about together a lot. Not because we are unhappy with each other - far from it, I couldn't be happier with anyone else if I tried. And I *think* he's happy with me! :)
For us it's a means of saying to each other, we absolutely adore each other and are comfortable enough within ourselves and out relationship that it wouldn't matter if we experiemented. We've set our boundaries in that it wouldn't happen with just anyone, and the other person has to approve of the person chosen. It provides us with interesting topics of conversation and gives us both something to look forward to, should any of this ever eventuate. Kali has been counted on M's list, and before that post, I hadn't even considered you, but now, I find myself seeing things in a different light! Especially after Kali's package comment!!! :)
At the very least, that was a lot of rambling to just send some hugs in your direction, for all three of you. *huge hugs*
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Date: 2006-09-27 11:29 pm (UTC)You guys are all absolutely awesome. I'm so pleased to count the three of you in my circle of friends despite not having seen you guys for ages. Have absolutely adored the time we have spent together (on beaches, at Swancons and just overall in general) and am so pleased that we have had that opportunity.
Your post made me think a lot about how we see ourselves and our relationships and how other people view us. So very inspiring.
Open relationships are something M and I speak about together a lot. Not because we are unhappy with each other - far from it, I couldn't be happier with anyone else if I tried. And I *think* he's happy with me! :)
For us it's a means of saying to each other, we absolutely adore each other and are comfortable enough within ourselves and out relationship that it wouldn't matter if we experiemented. We've set our boundaries in that it wouldn't happen with just anyone, and the other person has to approve of the person chosen. It provides us with interesting topics of conversation and gives us both something to look forward to, should any of this ever eventuate. Kali has been counted on M's list, and before that post, I hadn't even considered you, but now, I find myself seeing things in a different light! Especially after Kali's package comment!!! :)
At the very least, that was a lot of rambling to just send some hugs in your direction, for all three of you. *huge hugs*