trangely, I don't pick my partners based on physical attributes, there must be something wrong with me. If I had only been more picky physically, no doubt my life would have been filled with slender, small-busted redheads with green eyes and perfect, rounded arses. Because physical attributes are all that matters in a relationship with someone. Grrr...
Actually, I must be rather shallow because it came as quite a surprise to me to realize at one point that my most serious relationships have been with men to whom I was not particularly physically attracted. (My ethnic background pre-inclines me to men with dark hair, beards, and glasses, and I like light-colored eyes as well...) Much to my surprise, physical attraction comes with, for lack of a better word, spiritual attraction. All I can figure is that as you become closer to a person emotionally, your desire grows to be as close to them as possible physically as well.
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Date: 2006-11-21 05:00 am (UTC)Actually, I must be rather shallow because it came as quite a surprise to me to realize at one point that my most serious relationships have been with men to whom I was not particularly physically attracted. (My ethnic background pre-inclines me to men with dark hair, beards, and glasses, and I like light-colored eyes as well...) Much to my surprise, physical attraction comes with, for lack of a better word, spiritual attraction. All I can figure is that as you become closer to a person emotionally, your desire grows to be as close to them as possible physically as well.