Yep, skin to skin is lovely. And there are people that I'd love to snuggle up with like that, but never would, in the same way there are people I would love to travel with, but never would. What you want, and what works for you, are two different things sometimes.
Comfort zones have their place, they are definitely needed and you occasionally need a lot of time in them to get back to a working state. It's when leaving them becomes less and less of an option, that's when they've become destructive rather than constructive.
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Date: 2007-10-28 02:12 am (UTC)Comfort zones have their place, they are definitely needed and you occasionally need a lot of time in them to get back to a working state. It's when leaving them becomes less and less of an option, that's when they've become destructive rather than constructive.