You didn't know. I have mentioned it on my LJ a couple of times, but I don't dwell on it. He just stopped one day, and never touched me again in all the times and opportunities he had after that.
I have done a lot of reading up on molesters since, and forgave the guy a long time ago. What he did was wrong, but he was obviously troubled. Whatever stressors drove him to it likely ended, otherwise he probably wouldn't have stopped. I'd have preferred he find another way of dealing with it, but hopefully if he was doing stuff with me, he left other kids alone.
I will leave up my original reply for others to see, if you're okay with that, just so they can see I've been on the receiving end and so don't put their feet in it.
Or I can just do a reply elsewhere if you'd prefer.
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Date: 2010-03-04 06:02 am (UTC)You didn't know. I have mentioned it on my LJ a couple of times, but I don't dwell on it. He just stopped one day, and never touched me again in all the times and opportunities he had after that.
I have done a lot of reading up on molesters since, and forgave the guy a long time ago. What he did was wrong, but he was obviously troubled. Whatever stressors drove him to it likely ended, otherwise he probably wouldn't have stopped. I'd have preferred he find another way of dealing with it, but hopefully if he was doing stuff with me, he left other kids alone.
I will leave up my original reply for others to see, if you're okay with that, just so they can see I've been on the receiving end and so don't put their feet in it.
Or I can just do a reply elsewhere if you'd prefer.