Update

[dalekboy]

Shaz is resting in hospital for the night, they'll run tests tomorrow just to confirm what we already know. We decided that if I was getting a taxi to go move the car, given my state of tiredness and the fact that I hadn't eaten or drunk anything for the day, we thought that me coming home was probably the best option. If Shaz wants/needs me back out there tonight, I'll be calling a taxi.

We're both doing ok. Very upset but not devastated, and we both still have our good humour. We even had a laugh about the awfully tactless and very blunt nurse who was trying to console us. She was like a character straight out of The League of Gentlemen.

'Did you know that 50% of pregnancies miscarry? Most miscarriages are for the best though because it means there was something wrong with the baby.' I couldn't make up this woman if I tried!

*gap of an hour*

I've now eaten. Now to bed. Thanks for all the kind wishes, we both appreciate them. The main reason for the ban on phoning/messaging was so we wouldn't be getting disturbed while either resting or talking to the doctors.

Special thanks to fred_mouse.

Bed.

Comments

sorry to hear

[jocko55.livejournal.com]

Hi Sharon and Danny,

Both Jeanette and I are sad to hear the bad news. You should try again--Genevieve convinced us the whole business is worth it. All our best wishes. Jocko.

[kateorman.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry.

[cupidsbow.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry for your loss; you have all my sympathy.

[sexahlilthing.livejournal.com]

oh wow.. i am SOO horribly sorry.. i know how bad that hurts.. i went thru 2 of em myself and yeah, people say some of the dumbest shit during those times.. my thoughts are with you and hope you both heal bith well and quickly.. *major hugs & lots of support*

[logansrogue.livejournal.com]

I know you don't know me well at all but my love is with you and Shaz. It's never easy. I've seen four sisters miscarry, and my mother. Might I suggest some form of memorial, either in the home or the garden? Like a special tree or something? It's not my place to suggest such a thing, but it helped my sisters when they went through this.

Again, all my love.