It goes on...

[dalekboy]

Okay, they started inducing this morning. What we found out this morning is that the whole process may be over in an afternoon... or it could literally drag on for a few days.

The hardest part is that each step taken unveils a wait for the next step to begin. It's soul-destroying enough to have to make these decisions, without then finding out that they'll take at best hours if not days. We both work better with all this info up front.

I'm serious when I say there is no-one I hate so much that I would ever consider putting them through this. Even Lameo, the Lamest Man in the Universe, would get a gun shoved into that qeefing mouth of his.

I've always been big on doing things for the community, with no expectation other than the community will look after those in it if given the chance.

It's meant a lot to see that's true. You've all been lovely to Sharon and myself.

Thank you.

Comments

[cupidsbow.livejournal.com]

Just keep going. *virtual hugs*

[callistra.livejournal.com]

No one really knows what to do, and you are right about allowing people to help is a great gift. If you need anything, please let us know so we can all help.

[gutter-monkey.livejournal.com]

Thinking of you both still, sending all my positive thoughts your way. I wish there was more I could do. :(

Stay strong, man. If you need the slightest thing just say the word.

thank you.

[babalon-93.livejournal.com]

How awful, I am sorry that you didn't have all the information up front. There is so much pain, and even un-warranted shame, resulting from miscarriages that very few people talk openly about them and others don't really know the reality until they or someone close to them is in that situation. Of course I do not blame any individuals for keeping their grief private, that is a very personal choice, I just think that what you are doing here, talking openly and honestly about your experience, is a community service in itself. I admire your courage.

[king-espresso.livejournal.com]

More hugs from here, too, and although this is the absolute last thing on your mind, good luck with the Ditmar nom. (I'm only saying this because I'm the chimp handing that one out.)

But take care, and all our love to both of you.