That's what makes it such an interesting process - really thinking about the costs and benefits to all involved, and trying to allow for reasonable changes to their lives.
But that doesn't stop them spontaneously combusting in the middle of watching Swan Lake, and leaving you up in the air all over again.
And while the kid may develop a good relationship with a Godparent or guardian, they may well pick someone you'd have never thought of to be the person they turn to.
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Date: 2008-08-22 09:59 am (UTC)But that doesn't stop them spontaneously combusting in the middle of watching Swan Lake, and leaving you up in the air all over again.
And while the kid may develop a good relationship with a Godparent or guardian, they may well pick someone you'd have never thought of to be the person they turn to.