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In the last 24 hours, it has been suggested that I do a poll about my facial hair and a poll about who wants to sleep with me.
Of course, the two women who said I look hotter without the beard are both overseas. I mean, seriously, what's the good of being hot to people who are too far off to stroke my naked cheek?
Or even my face? *wicked grin*
And the person wanting me to do a poll about who wants to sleep with me posted anonymously! Ok, I can get the anonymous thing, but still, if I got three people say yes, all anonymously, where does that leave me? Or worse still, what if the only person to put their name to it was Lameo? Brrrr...
Maybe I could combine them and do two polls, who wants to sleep with me with the beard/who wants to sleep with me without. *grin*
If I choose to care about my facial hair, does my vanity listen to the people who think I look better without it, or the people who like me with it? Kali commented that she thinks I look younger with the beard, which is interesting, as I think she's right. Are people put off by the beard because it's facial hair, or because of how I look with it?
Is it just me or is my life becoming more complex due to 100 Days? Is this a good thing or a bad one? Should I do a poll on what polls I should do?
Given the number of responses I've had to those two posts, would love to see what people think about any or all of this.
Of course, the two women who said I look hotter without the beard are both overseas. I mean, seriously, what's the good of being hot to people who are too far off to stroke my naked cheek?
Or even my face? *wicked grin*
And the person wanting me to do a poll about who wants to sleep with me posted anonymously! Ok, I can get the anonymous thing, but still, if I got three people say yes, all anonymously, where does that leave me? Or worse still, what if the only person to put their name to it was Lameo? Brrrr...
Maybe I could combine them and do two polls, who wants to sleep with me with the beard/who wants to sleep with me without. *grin*
If I choose to care about my facial hair, does my vanity listen to the people who think I look better without it, or the people who like me with it? Kali commented that she thinks I look younger with the beard, which is interesting, as I think she's right. Are people put off by the beard because it's facial hair, or because of how I look with it?
Is it just me or is my life becoming more complex due to 100 Days? Is this a good thing or a bad one? Should I do a poll on what polls I should do?
Given the number of responses I've had to those two posts, would love to see what people think about any or all of this.
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Oooh, my own little bit of Santa.. ;)
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(not the other anonymous person.)
(and certainly not lameo)
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Oh... ok...
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Forgetting that Sharon is always welcome to say no to any prospective sexual partner and that's the end of that, I have an internal sense that I follow on how far I'm willing to go with an individual. It has little to do with what I actually want and can change over time.
With some folks I could not know them and be able to jump right into bed with them without a problem. With others, I've known, desired, and loved them deeply for decades, but I couldn't take things that far.
It's the same way I listen to my body about what food I should/shouldn't eat (in regards to the things I know I can eat). There are times when I can eat as much chocolate as I want, when it's a good thing and I am driven to have it. There are times when no matter how much I want the chocolate, I have an internal sense that I shouldn't have it, and I listen to that. I will go for weeks with little or no chocolate on this sense, even though I desperately want it.
Thanks to this sense, there is not one sexual partner of the eight I've had that I regret having slept with. For me that's really important, because my sexuality is a big part of who I am, and I give myself over to partners totally.
That said, if I went with what I want, rather than what I can have... There are thirty people of all shapes and sizes on my friends list that I would shag in a heartbeat.
Of course, this is all talking about full-on sex. Most people can, at the very least, get hugs and cuddles from me. Quite a few could get more than that, though again, how much depends on feel.
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I love beards. And goatees. Facial hair is way sexy.
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And that's why I keep a crochet hook and a quick-un-pick in my handbag.
-Kali
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I think I'd probably say that the woman you live with should be the main determiner besides your own desire. The opinions of people who rarely see/sleep with you should be way down there on the list :->
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I don't have much that I bother getting vain about because I don't feel attractive, so what's the point? Anything that makes me feel desired, even in a little way, is nice. When I can be bothered with them, I wear a particular style of underpant for that reason - there are women who think I look good in them. It's a nice change for me to feel attractive in any way.
All that said, at the end of the day, I'll do what I want, but it's interesting watching the effect people can have on that. And it's nice to occasionally feel like it's worth my effort to be just a little vain about my appearance.
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Which are....?
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I'd need to see more pics of the before and after of you to decide which I prefer on you, but in general I've come to rather dislike beards on men. I can handle greying, neatly kept beards on 'older' guys, eg in their 60s, but on younger guys I just don't like them. Trimmed goatees are fine.
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Just remember though, everywhere you go, I've been there first ;)
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While I admire people with big bushy beards, for myself I prefer neatly kempt (around #2 on the clippers). Fortunate for me, as Jeanette strongly concurs. I'd shave it off occasionally, but that leaves me itchy for the first week of regrowth and un-kissable for a fortnight, starting less than a day after I shave..
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And who wouldnt sleep with you - with or without the beard given the opportunity??
They'd have to be crazy.
You are most definately 100% sexy and gorgeous.
You are a spectacular person!!
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Hrrmm...
George Bush (both of them)
The Pope
John Howard
I can keep going...
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Who knows what they hide in private lol
And Danny would certainly be worth it!!!!
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